For most of their lives, the average guy goes about his life being a regular Joe with wife, kids, job, mortgage, and dreams postponed to "someday". There are certainly, among the masses of men, those who harbor a curiosity if not a latent desire to experience homosexual sex, if only to a limited degree. Perhaps it is in the form of struggling not to look at other men in the group shower at work or at the gym. Perhaps it is rigidly not looking over at the guy at the next urinal in the rest room. Perhaps it is suppressing secret desires aroused by an effeminate coworker or even a stranger. Not a burning desire to leave married life behind and enter the gay lifestyle, but rather just occasional thoughts wondering what it would be like to share pleasure with another man.
Women hug and kiss each other, women dance together, and women even go to the rest room together. Taking that to the next step to sharing physical pleasure is largely accepted and is the stuff of some serious male fantasies. What husband would not want to come home from work to find his scantily clad wife in the arms of another woman, and light up to the words, "We waited for you"? Very few men are so rigid in their morality that they could resist such an offer. But what if he came home to his wife in the arms of another man and his wife says, "This is Ray, I want to watch him suck your cock"? Why is that different? Both are very exciting. Both are anonymous except for the participants. Both result in pleasure and some great memories. The only difference is reticence born of the effects of a lot of rigid upbringing and stigma hammered into men for generations.
But older men are experimenting. Quietly, mostly well below the radar, are husbands wanting to take another man's cock into their hands and/or mouth while receiving the pleasure that another man can deliver. The lucky ones have a wife who eagerly participates and encourages her man to explore. Fewer but still fortunate are the ones whose wives allow them to be active with men without her participation. Vastly more husbands want to try male/male sex but do not have the courage to discuss it with their wives. These usually end up masturbating in front of a webcam while some equally desperate soul masturbates in front of his. These will probably never experience the excitement and pleasure generated by manipulating another man's cock into a powerful squirting orgasm. They are likely to pass their lives without ever feeling a man's hand or lips caressing their hard cocks.
These stories are fictional but are a glimpse into guys 'getting together'. Bisexual experimentation is largely the venue of older men in their 50's, 60's and beyond. To those who are interested but have never tried, I would remind you that the clock is ticking.