With passages from her diaries and journals, Dannah shows the joy and heartache of her dating years, the challenges and temptations, successes and failures. Through personal narrative, Dannah exposes Satan's lies about sex, gives a three- step plan to breaking off sinful relationships, provides compassionate guidelines for healing, and lists seven secrets of sexual purity to apply to your life. Practical how-to-say-no skills can reduce the risk of a young woman's heart being broken by sexual sin. Danah and her friends share letters of encouragement to young women in a variety of situations, from pregnancy and abortion to sexual abuse to pornography addiction.