Most people confuse an Instagram picture with real life. Life in the real world takes work to build and work to maintain.
You can have everything you want in life if you put in the work. In aviation, they say it takes ten maintenance hours per flight hour.
The same happens in life. You'll need to maintain healthy relationships if you want terrific vacations and extraordinary celebrations.
You and everyone will change along the way; you'll have to decide if it's for good or bad. Be yourself and surround yourself with amazing, trustworthy people, and you'll fulfill your mission in life. Good Luck!